I am a mom of 5 children. Four active boys followed by an adorable girl full of personality! This is a blog that tells it like it is, no sugar coating here. Some topics will make you feel warm and fuzzy; others will make you want to run and hide. Welcome to my world.
Friday, July 25, 2008
Enough Said
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
MONSOON!!!!
For more information on this storm, and to see more pictures, visit the local News sites... listed below.
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Penguins on the Wall






Now I need to do the other boy's rooms... :)
The Least of These -- What I am learning
Today is a different world. It isn’t safe to stop for hitchhikers any more. I worry about the safety of myself and my family if I were to stop. Most people these days have cell phones, so is there really a need to stop and help someone who is stranded with a disabled car? Could I even help with my lack of automobile knowledge?
When I was 17, I stopped for a lady who needed work and food so she could help her kids. I was sure that I could fix the problem. I invited her over to our house for dinner. I offered to take her where ever she needed to go and to help her find a job. I had a solution for everything. But she only wanted cash, which I didn’t have.
I talked with my mom about this. Now that I am a mom, I can’t believe she didn’t freak out that I had invited a stranger over for dinner. But she taught me about charity. Saying the Lord was pleased with my efforts. She also told me that sometimes people who are asking for help don’t have as noble intentions with the money as they say they do. I was shocked. She carefully explained that it wasn’t safe for me to stop and help some of these people. I needed to follow the promptings of the spirit and be more careful.
There are many times I see people on the street corners that need help. They are homeless, hungry or in need of work. My heart aches for them but I think, “what can I do?” or “ do they really need help or are they looking for drug money?” More often than not, I drive by in my air conditioned car, thinking about them until the next stop light, heading to my comfortable home.
A few years ago, I saw something that I will never forget. I was driving past another corner on a typical Arizona day; one hundred plus degrees. On this corner was a man dressed as though he was prepared for the world’s worst blizzard. He had donned a scarf, hat, several layers of heavy clothing followed by an open coat. His bearded face was barely poking through the layers of clothing. It was obvious from the appearance of these cloths and this man that neither had been washed in some time. In fact, it took some effort to differentiate the man from the cloths, as they were both so dirty. He had sunken down, half laying, half sitting, to the cement, leaning against the stop light. He is what I imagine the Savior meant when he said “the least of these”.
Next to this poor man was another man. Maybe in his 20’s, although I didn’t see his face. His arm was around the fallen man and with his other arm he held a yellow Gatorade to the man’s mouth. I could tell by how the younger man leaned in to help, that he wasn’t worried about smell, filth or safety. He was worried about a fellow human. I felt as though I had seen the story of the Good Samaritan. I have seen the painting, one man leaning over another to help, but this was a real life version of it. I wondered how I could get to that point in my life where I do not worry about what is unpleasant for me and worry more about what my fellow man needs.
Yesterday, as we were driving, I saw yet another person in need. We didn’t have any cash with us and we stopped beyond her view. So it was easy to not help. But the look on her face haunts me. She had a sign that told her story. “mom of 3 children, need your help or prayers” How could I pass by. I tried to justify in my mind that her kids were probably with CPS and she needed money for other things. But as I pondered this a while, some scriptures came to mind. In Mosiah chapter 4, it covers everything I need to know about these situations. Verses 16 -19, 22 & 26 say:
16 And also, ye yourselves will succor those that stand in need of your succor; ye will administer of your substance unto him that standeth in need; and ye will not suffer that the beggar putteth up his petition to you in vain, and turn him out to perish.So, I have concluded that the Lord wants me to learn a lesson. What can I do to help these poor people? Who am I to withhold what I have from them? Of course, I don’t think the Lord expects me to compromise the safety of my family or myself. But how difficult would it be to stock up on bus passes, Wal-mart gift cards, or even Gatorade. These are things I can do… these are things that “the least of these” need.
17 Perhaps thou shalt say: The man has brought upon himself his misery; therefore I will stay my hand, and will not give unto him of my food, nor impart unto him of my substance that he may not suffer, for his punishments are just—
18 But I say unto you, O man, whosoever doeth this the same hath great cause to repent; and except he repenteth of that which he hath done he perisheth forever, and hath no interest in the kingdom of God.
19 For behold, are we not all beggars? Do we not all depend upon the same Being, even God, for all the substance which we have, for both food and raiment, and for gold, and for silver, and for all the riches which we have of every kind?
22 And if ye judge the man who putteth up his petition to you for your substance that he perish not, and condemn him, how much more just will be your condemnation for withholding your substance, which doth not belong to you but
to God, to whom also your life belongeth; and yet ye put up no petition, nor repent of the thing which thou hast done.
26 And now, for the sake of these things which I have spoken unto you—that is, for the sake of retaining a remission of your sins from day to day, that ye may walk guiltless before God—I would that ye should impart of your substance to the poor,
every man according to that which he hath, such as feeding the hungry, clothing
the naked, visiting the sick and administering to their relief, both spiritually
and temporally, according to their wants.
I know that all that I have, the Lord has given me. It does not belong to me, but to Him. It is my sacred duty to share with those around me. Who am I to turn them away?
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
So Many Birthdays!
I don't know how we planned it but somehow all our boys have birthdays within 2 months of each other, and all during the summer. While they may feel the pain of not knowing what it is like to have mom bring in cupcakes to their classroom on their birthday, I am secretly glad I don't have to worry about that. :) I should apologize in advance if any of the following embarrasses my children. :)

S was born in May. He just turned 13 and so far, he hasn't hit the typical teenage attitude. He is helpful and kind. He loves his baby sister and melts every time he sees her. He is growing up into such a wonderful young man.
J made his entry into this world in July. He is 11 this summer. Ever since he was a baby, I could hardly refuse those big blue eyes.He has a sincere heart and solid determination, which will help him through his life. J has a simple and strong sense of belief. 
R arrived in June. Ryan had tried to enter the world upside down, but a skilled doctor prevented that. That should have been a sign to me that R would forever be an active mover: Whether it is climbing, jumping, running, spinning, or -- just like his fetal life -- upside down. R is so sweet and has a quiet calmness about him that can rub off on those around him. He is 9 this year.
T is our youngest boy. He was also born in July. Although he is 6 now and going into first grade, he is not afraid to call my mommy and give me hugs and kisses. He is on the boarder of "too big" and still "so small". He always has a hug for me and still melts my heart.
Last is B. Even though her birthday isn't in the summer, I couldn't leave her out of the birthday post. She was born in September. She came making noise and hasn't stopped. She cried for an hour after she was born, purred all night that first night and then on the next day began talking... OK, not really, but it seems like it. She is always talking or singing. Either to her family or her babies. We love it.
Monday, July 14, 2008
OBFY -- A great little place
Ocean Blue Frozen yogurt. Everything is self serve. You select what flavors you want and proceed like it were an ice cream buffet. Then you can add any toppings you want. At the end, you pay by weight, priced by the ounce, instead of by size. So you can get as much or as little as you want.
The best part? It is much healthier for you than other treats of this nature. There is only fat in the creamy version and that is only 2 grams. Everything else is fat free. BUT it doesn't taste like it. It is SO yummy. It is also made with Fructose which is supposed to be better than regular sugar.
Anyway you look at it, it is a great deal and very yummy. Great for family night!!! Web site is http://www.obfy.net/
Have fun!
Friday, July 11, 2008
New additions to the family
I went to Basha's the other day with B and made the mistake of walking by their display of Nickelodeon plush figures... Backyardigans included. They had 4 of the 5 characters and B instantly reached for them. Her little arms could barely hold them and she kept kissing them, how could I resist?
That was three days ago. She is still hugging them, kissing them and pretty much doing everything with them. The first couple days we had to give her Backyardagian friends a special bed because she wouldn't go to sleep with them next to her. Last night she was able to sleep by them and woke up early saying, "Oh, Tassa (Tasha)!Ploblow (Pablo)! -Tyrone! Hi, Neekwa! (Uniqua)" followed by kisses.
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Plastic was supposed to be easier
DH and I were in the front room when we heard a HUGE crash. It sounded like plastic so I wasn't worried. Hubby went to examine and between fits of laughter told me to get my camera... this is what we saw.
I eventually had to put the camera down and help S.
Saturday, July 5, 2008
Day 10, Going HOME!
We are headed home today. It will be nice to be in our own beds. Unless more excitement happens, this is the end of our road trip blog.
UPDATE: We made it home... Thankfully. After a few hiccups along the route home, we were all grateful to get back home. As nice as it is to get away from regular life for a while, it is always nicer to come back home. we arestill trying to get things back to normal after our trip.
Friday, July 4, 2008
Day 9, 4th of July!!!
I sure love my little family – I love making memories. I go out of my mind most the time because each one of these children has a steady will and strong spirit. But that is the way I want them. That is what they need for the tough days we live in now.
We pulled a 13 hour drive day, the longest yet. After catching a spattering of fireworks along the way, we pulled over at a Wal-Mart and settled in for an uneventful night.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Day 8, Sight Seeing
We rented a minivan today so we could go sightseeing. We went to the Cape Meares lighthouse. It was a beautiful drive; the roadways being lined with trees so thickly that you could barely see the sky above. I was so excited to see the lighthouse and imagined all the breathtaking photo ops I would have with the kids.
We also saw the octopus tree which was really quite amazing but it needed a tree house. This was a tree that was definitely made for Swiss Family Robinson. I guess since it was some sort of state monument that we would have to enjoy just looking at the tree and it really was pretty cool. 

Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Day 7, All Things Bright and Beautiful
We awoke this morning to 5 baby deer feeding. Evidently, these deer come every morning to have a snack right there in camp. The camp host put out some seeds for them and even fed them from his hand. They came so close to us. In fact, there was a few moments where I thought J might be kicked by one of them while all five frolicked right around him. He was in heaven, and also a little scared. But he loved watching the dear. It was so amazing.
We spent the day driving through Oregon. I have come to the conclusion that this is really the most beautiful state EVER! I don’t ever want to leave. We drove by the Portland Temple. Hubby and I had a wonderful idea of walking around the temple with the kids and letting them experience the spirit of peace that is there. However, about the time we pulled up to the grounds we had about three kids screaming as a result of hitting, spitting or kicking… B was saying, “oh no, Renran (T) sad?” I have tried to block out those long moments of chaos, but I do remember that DH and I decided we should keep this spirit of contention contained. Eventually we got everyone calmed down and we began our journey to Tillamook, Oregon.
Let’s just say that once we got here, we decided to alter our trip. Not only was the drive over here amazing, once we arrived there were so many things we wanted to do, we figured we would have to amend the plans. Our first stop was the famous Tillamook Cheese Factory (http://www.tillamookcheese.com/) This was a great place to take the family. Food and ice cream was very inexpensive but ever so tasty! The kids could watch cheese being made and have free samples. And of course there were a hundred ways to spend your money at the cute gift shop. Somehow, in a “country themed” gift shop, S managed to find yet another penguin to add to his collection. J got a very powerful sling-shot (oh my) and R and T added to their “animal collection” They have created some sort of game where they collect all their stuffed animals, imaginary beasts and miniature creatures and “verse” each other with them. I don’t know exactly what they are doing, except when they do it, they can entertain themselves for hours.
We have settled in for the night at an RV park between Tillamook and Bay City. We will stay here through the 4th, and then hurry home – somehow in time for Sunday (we hope). The RV park we are at is nice. Staff is friendly and the park is clean and quiet. Their website is www.tillamookbaycityrvpark.com/
hope this link works... Today reminded me of the primary song, All Things Bright and Beautiful.
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Day 6, DONT EAT THAT
In reading about the Seattle area, we knew that seatbelt laws were quite strict. We were able to verify this knowledge just as we pulled on the freeway from Redmond. We were pulled over on the ON RAMP. I thought the friendly looking officer was going to tell us a bridge was out or something, but the tone in his voice made me ask if we had done anything wrong. Seatbelts. The officer couldn’t see a shoulder strap belt and pulled us over. After we explained that the RV was only equipped with lap belts and that we had our infant in a car seat, he let us go with a warning. Warning? Warning for what? That we will be pulled over again for not having shoulder straps? We drove off and I began to notice the rain stained brick walls, the old buildings, the heavy traffic. Suddenly, Redmond didn’t seem like such a beautiful place. It was as if the angels stopped singing, birds fell from the sky and someone just told me I had grey hair. Even though Redmond really was just as beautiful and the officer was very nice, a negative experience sure influenced how I felt about the place. It made me think, how often do the words I say or actions I do influence those around me? My children? Do they start out having a beautiful day and I come in like a cop and put a damper on everything. Food for thought… now speaking of food.
We have been told that Seattle seafood is the best anywhere, so we began to look for a child friendly place we could take the kids and enjoy a little comida de la mar. We found a place called Imperial Garden Seafood. We assumed we had struck gold… seafood and Chinese food. YIKES! Were we ever wrong! We had barely warmed our seats before we were ambushed by three non-English speaking servers with carts full of food, none of which I recognized. They just began putting food in front of us, “yes?” I would nod or shrug and there it was on our table. Every once and a while, I would hear a word I thought I knew, like Moo- Shoo… That stuff is delicious back home, so of course I nodded. What they put on my table looked like the intestines of an unidentified animal. Our new friends were gone as quickly as they had appeared, leaving a mound of mysterious food before us. We all looked at each other with wide eyes, trying to stifle our laughter. What had we gotten ourselves into?
None of the meat was in whole pieces, making me think they just ground everything up. R and S both wouldn’t touch anything, so I asked if they had chicken. “no chicken, only pork” Great! Please pass the pig! It looked tasty enough, so I encouraged my seafood shy boys to dig in and I also took an energetic bite. BONES! What part of the pig do you serve that has bones????? The feet? Knees? Jawbone? I couldn’t think of anything that had the bones that I would want to eat. I had to spit that one out, and then the gurgling stomach began. We opted for one last option, in hopes to find some food the kids would eat. Chicken Chow mien – evidently they did have chicken somewhere in the kitchen. Well, it wasn’t horrible, but instead of what we would think was chicken, there was this egg stuff. It was like they got the right animal, just the wrong delivery of it. If there was actual meat in those, it couldn’t be healthy. So, in the end, we all left our cultural experience with no desire to ever return. We ransacked the RV for something that would extinguish the taste and stop the oncoming stomach upset. The unpleasant food outweighed any sense of adventure we had experienced upon entering the restaurant. EWWWW!
